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Information for survivors

Sexual violence affects every person differently. This page is a safe space to find support, reassurance, and resources that can help you on your healing journey. You are not alone, we believe you.

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We've created a free PDF booklet to help you better understand the effects of sexual violence and where to go for support.

It is not your fault. You are not alone. We believe you.

what you might be feeling

After experiencing sexual violence, people may go through a wide range of emotional and physical responses. All of them are valid. These are normal trauma responses. Talking about them can be part of the healing process.

You may feel:

  • Shock

  • Guilt

  • Disbelief

  • Shame

  • Fear

  • Sadness or depression

  • Anger

You might also notice:

  • Tension or feeling on edge

  • Trouble sleeping or changes to sleep patterns

  • Intrusive memories or flashbacks

  • Feeling fearful or withdrawn

  • Physical reactions or discomfort

  • Irritability

your healing is your own

There is no set timeline for recovery. Some people feel the impact immediately. For others, it may show up years later. That’s okay. Your journey is yours, and it doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s.

"You can recognise survivors of abuse by their courage. When silence is so very inviting, they step forward and share their truth so others know they aren't alone."

Are you ready to take the next step?